Padded Spreader Bar with Wrist and Ankle Restraints, PU Leather Cuffs, Premium BDSM Equipment for Couples
Padded Spreader Bar with Wrist and Ankle Restraints, PU Leather Cuffs, Premium BDSM Equipment for Couples is backordered and will ship as soon as it is back in stock.
Padded Spreader Bar with Wrist and Ankle Restraints, PU Leather Cuffs, Premium BDSM Equipment for Couples is backordered and will ship as soon as it is back in stock.
A spreader bar that cushions while it restrains
The Padded Spreader Bar is a 30 inch high-density foam bar wrapped in vegan-friendly PU leather, with soft wrist and ankle cuffs at each end. It spreads arms or legs like a rigid bar, but the padded body also supports knees, back, or neck while your partner is bound.
30" padded PU leather bar with full cuff kit
What the Padded Spreader Bar is and who it is for
The Padded Spreader Bar opens up your kinky play by spreading arms or legs while keeping your partner comfortable. Unlike the rigid metal bars elsewhere in our spreader bar collection, this one is a lightweight, high-density foam cushion covered in luxurious vegan-friendly faux leather, with soft wrist and ankle cuffs and clips built in.
The set includes 2 wrist cuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 4 connectors with D-rings, and 2 restraint connectors. Bind wrists, ankles, or both at each end of the bar, then put the padding to work: behind the shoulders to arch the chest, behind the low back to lift the hips, under the neck to prop the head face up, or under the pelvis for easier G-spot or P-spot access face down. For kneeling positions, place the bar between the thighs and ankles to protect the knees and keep your partner more securely restrained.
The ergonomic shape supports the body while in bondage for added comfort, and the bolster cushion wipes down after your session for easy cleanup. It is a natural companion to the cuffs and straps in our leather restraints collection, and our beginner's guide to BDSM covers where gear like this fits into a first scene.
Padded Spreader Bar Video Demonstration
Key features
- High-density foam: the bar keeps its shape and supports your body weight without letting you sink through the pillow.
- Ergonomic design: built to support the body while in bondage for added comfort. Place it under knees, ankles, back, or neck.
- Faux leather: vegan-friendly PU leather that is sleek, smooth, and easy to clean.
- Bondage included: 2 wrist cuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 4 connectors with D-rings, and 2 restraint connectors.
Foam core, faux leather skin
The bar is high-density PU foam that holds its shape under body weight, wrapped in sleek vegan-friendly PU leather. That combination is what lets it double as a bolster: it restrains at the ends and supports in the middle.
Nylon straps and ABS hardware connect the soft cuffs to the bar, and the whole surface wipes down with ease after a session.
A fixed spread keeps a scene predictable: your partner cannot close their arms or legs, and you can plan positions around that. Pairing the bar with a wedge from our position cushions covers both restraint and elevation in one setup.
Fit and spread measurements
- Bar length: 30"
- Bar width: 5"
- Wrist cuffs adjust up to 14.5" in circumference
- Ankle cuffs adjust up to 19" in circumference
- Includes 4 D-ring connectors and 2 restraint connectors
At 30 inches long and around 3.4 pounds, the bar stores in a drawer and travels easily, which makes it one of the lowest-commitment restraint pieces you can own. If you are building toward a dedicated space, our dungeon design guide shows where portable gear fits alongside the heavier dungeon equipment.
Specifications
Padded Spreader Bar: full specifications
| Specification | Detail |
|---|---|
| Product type | Padded foam spreader bar with restraint cuffs |
| Series | Bedroom Bliss Signature Collection |
| Bar length | 30" |
| Bar width | 5" |
| Wrist cuffs | Adjust up to 14.5" in circumference |
| Ankle cuffs | Adjust up to 19" in circumference |
| Core | High-density PU foam, holds shape under body weight |
| Cover | Vegan-friendly PU faux leather, wipe-clean |
| Materials | PU leather, PU foam, nylon, ABS plastic |
| Color | Black |
| Cleaning | Wipe down after your session for easy cleanup |
| Weight | Approx 3.41 lbs |
| In the box | Padded spreader bar, 2 wrist cuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 4 connectors with D-rings, 2 restraint connectors |
| Best for | Couples who want spread restraint with built-in body support and easy cleanup |
Pairs well with
Frequently Asked Questions About the Padded Spreader Bar
What is a spreader bar?
A spreader bar is a bondage tool that holds a partner's wrists or ankles apart at a set distance. This version is padded: a 30 inch high-density foam bar wrapped in vegan-friendly PU leather, with soft wrist and ankle cuffs that attach to each end.
How do you use a spreader bar?
Cuff your partner's wrists or ankles to each end of the bar so the limbs stay spread. Because this bar is a padded cushion, it can also sit under the knees, ankles, back, or neck during the scene, supporting the body while it restrains.
What is a spreader bar used for?
It keeps arms or legs open during play so positions stay consistent without effort. The padding adds comfort jobs a rigid bar cannot do: place it behind the shoulders to arch the chest, behind the low back to lift the hips, or under the neck to prop the head.
How does a spreader bar work?
The bar sets a fixed distance, here 30 inches, between the cuffs so the wearer cannot close their arms or legs. The set includes 2 wrist cuffs, 2 ankle cuffs, 4 connectors with D-rings, and 2 restraint connectors, with cuff straps that adjust to fit.
What is a spreader bar used for in the bedroom?
Couples use it to keep wrists, ankles, or both spread for access during play. For kneeling positions, place the padded bar between the thighs and ankles to protect the knees while keeping your partner securely restrained.
How do you use a spreader bar in BDSM?
Restrain wrists or ankles to the bar ends, then position the padded body where support is needed: under hips for G-spot or P-spot access when face down, or behind the back when face up. Wipe the PU leather down after the session for easy cleanup.
Choosing between padded and rigid spreader bars?
Our team walks couples through the trade-offs: spread width, padding, cuff fit, and how each format pairs with the rest of your gear.
